The Necessity of Social Fabric for a Society
Last night we watched the old film “Cinderella Man” about the boxer Gentleman James Braddox. He fought during the Great Depression in the late 1930s. He was famous for being a good, decent guy. In one of the early scenes, he talks to one of his three children about why he should not steal from the grocery store. The Braddox family was very poor, and the film depicts the extreme difficulties facing most families. Having been born in 1933 I can relate to this aspect of the film fairly well.
Basically, Braddox explains that in such difficult times people must stick together, work together, and not take advantage of one another. In short, we must be honest and caring rather than selfish and short-sighted about what makes humanity workable. In his life and in his boxing career he apparently refused to take unfair advantage of others, even those against whom he was boxing, thus the title “Gentleman Jim”. Putting aside the possibility that the film whitewashed his words a lot, Jim’s life and remarks struck a powerful note with regard to my own life during the Great Depression.
I was born in 1933, and my mom farmed me out to a childless couple so that she could go to work. For several years she made and peddled sandwiches to beer parlors and poolhalls just to get bye. She retrieved me when I was three after she had signed a lease on a tiny café where she could make a living for the two of us. We lived in a one-room apartment above that café for several years while I began going to school. Over the next ten years my mom made her way through several café’s, including that of a large downtown hotel coffeeshop. She finally opened her own restaurant in the heart of our downtown area. She had arrived by virtue of the American Dream that hard work and trusting others will make a good life possible. Along the way she made many friends with those who worked for her.
Watching the film about Braddox reminded me of those days and my mom’s hard work, but also of the values that must undergird the fulfillment of the Great American Dream. Humans must live within a social fabric of honesty and trust if we are going to survive and prosper. We have made it through depressions and World Wars because we have found a way to rely on and trust each other. It is this commitment that will see us past the horrors of the Trump era to a better future. I really believe this and do try to live by it and hope others will too. I know this sounds a bit “dopy”, but it is the fabric out of which society and humanity thrive.
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